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Quote: “Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it’s all over.” ~ Gloria Naylor

I chatted with my cousin few minutes ago, and we talked about his previous girls, the two girls who broke his heart, in particular, the latest one.

I knew his love story. History repeated itself. These two girls literally broke his heart, they both dumped him (for being so good?). Let me talk about this second girl. She always visits me in my FS account. I don’t know her reasons. And this time, I saw that she’s connected again to my cousin’s FS account. I knew he removed her as FS friend the moment they broke up. I asked cousin if they’re friends again. He said, no. Someone opened his FS and added this girl. Cousin also said that every time he’s online, this girl would pop up a message. In other words, “papansin”…

I was kind of semi-annoyed with this second girl. She made my cousin an idiot for two times. The first time, she got a boyfriend in her office, while she was still the GF of my cousin. She asked for forgiveness from my cousin, and from my aunt and uncle. With so much prodding of my cousin’s family, cousin gave her a second chance. I was having second thoughts with that idea, but I just supported him, anyway. Then, the next time I heard, they were back to each other’s arms. This time around, everything was going on smoothly.

Until.

A few months back.

Cousin is single and available again…

because this second girl did it AGAIN.

“Ooops. I did it again!” I imagined her singing and dancing with Britney Spears.

And hola, indeed, she did it again…

and guess what?

with my cousin’s friend and neighbor?

“tapang naman ng sikmura, ano?”

I really don’t care what this girl is up to. It’s just that, how can she do that for two times? And she did that while she was still in relationship with my cousin.

Anyhow, to cut the story short, cousin broke up with her, for good. I saw in the girl’s FS account that she’s married. I asked cousin if this girl has already married. Cousin said, “baka feeling nya married sya”…

But the issue here is…

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Quote: ““With lies you may go ahead in the world - but you can never go back” ~ Russian Proverb

She kept on swinging by my cousin’s YM after all she did. Does she have enough guts to do that? Would she plead again? Oh no.

If I made someone a fool for two times, I wouldn’t even bother saying hello at the soonest time possible. Although cousin’s already healed, I’m pretty sure he doesn’t miss her ever, I think it’s not appropriate to make “papansin” again, and tell st*pid lies, cry, and who knows, ask my cousin that he should accept her again. I’m imagining the worst-case scenario.

Would you be friends with your ex? Well, in particular, an ex who did you wrong?

Honestly, yes-no.

In my case, I made friends with my first ex, after a longish time; God’s timing, yes. The message and timing was heaven-sent at that time. It’s because it would be his last time to talk to me. After two weeks, he was literally gone from this world. Thank God, there was a closure.

Maybe no…

if the intention is not clear and for the benefit of everyone around.

Time will tell when they will have the proper closure…but it shouldn’t be forced at the soonest…

What’s your two cents’ worth?

Let’s talk.

Fingertalks
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