What is your self-talk?
How do you talk to your self?
Positively?
Negatively?
Neutral?
You don't care...
You care...
Do you feel more at ease talking with others in a positive way than to your self?
Sometimes it's true that we tend to be more apologetic to other people and more concerned with their welfare than our own self. That's a sad reality. Sometimes we tend to say sorry more to other people even for just the minute thing that we have done them, but most of the time, we don't say we're sorry for hurting our own self, our own pride, our own body.
What we say to our self is important and should be positive. If no one will say positive things to us, who would do if not -- us? If someone would tell us we can't do anything, we should try our very best not to inculcate that into our minds, or else, it would become our guide - a WRONG guide.
When we talk to our self, make sure that what our self hears is the most inspiring thing we could ever tell. The self is alive, living, constantly evolving. Make sure that it listens well to what nature dictates, to what our own calling is. Otherwise, we'd always be parroting someone else.
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4 months and 2 days ago
Hi Fingertalks,
Yes I believe in positive talking to ourselves. It's called affirmation and it brings out the latent strength that lies within our subconscious. Most of the time, we berate ourselves for errors and wrongdoings. It's about time, we reassure ourselves with positive affirmations. Thanks for the wonderful post. Please take care of yourself and your baby. I will be praying for both of you and your family too. God bless you all always my friend.
4 months and 1 day ago
My self-talk is pretty honest and straightforward. Before going to sleep I always rewind my life and see where I had got wrong with myself and others.
4 months ago
I think indeed this is wise words you are giving, and I think you are absolutely right.
We have to think more positive every day, to be positive in our behaviour. My bad thougts will give my surroundings very bad signals, and I might send out some bad vibrations which is not meant to be. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me.
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3 months and 30 days ago
For me it's don't care
Anyway great post with nice topic talking about. Keep up the good work
3 months and 26 days ago
I guess I have the tendency to talk to myself to much and not with others and my talks are never positive. that's sad.
3 months and 24 days ago
hey, love the blog - i will try and keep up with it!! please keep more coming :)I wish I could start a blog but I don't have much time :(Thanks, nick
3 months and 24 days ago
I have to say I'm my own worst critic. I am very hard on my self but I always try to stay positive & be optimistic. It's often easier for me to encourage others sometimes than to encourage myself.
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3 months and 24 days ago
I try to be honest with myself at all times. I cheer myself up when I need to and I also bring myself down when I feel that I deserve it. How I talk to myself is driven by how I feel at the moment.
Great post.
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3 months and 23 days ago
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3 months and 21 days ago
That is beautiful and something that so many people need to hear.
3 months and 20 days ago
Great Article.Thanks for sharing. Keep posting like this wonderful post.
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3 months and 19 days ago
thank you for your wonderful comment, (as usual), my good friend,bro.mel. thank you for your prayers to my growing family. i would really need your prayers esp. on my delivery. have a nice day always!
3 months and 19 days ago
that's a good practice, selena - reviewing what had gone through at the end of our busy day. i need to work on that, too.
3 months and 19 days ago
thank you klunz.
yup, the law of attraction really works. we attract what and who we are...and what we think of.
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